Forgive Yourself


Sometimes in life, we are very regretful of the things we ended up not achieving. We become too hard on ourselves and of the past up to the extent that we repeatedly resent ourselves for not doing this and that. We constantly say "I should've done this", "I should've done that", " I should've done better" and things alike, and we often can't get over things. We force ourselves to right the wrong knowing that it's pointless. Like, how could you go back in time and rewind your life?

The thing is, you can no longer undo the things you have done in the past, so forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for not achieving something you badly wish you should have achieved. Forgive yourself for not doing the things you wish you should've done. 

What matters now is you; your today's life. Always keep in mind that we are living in the present and heading towards the future. So live through the lessons and again do not continue to carry the burdens of the past anymore. Take with you the learnings from the pains, struggles, and experiences of yesterday and keep going. Always look forward and move on. 

From now on, I want to see the even stronger version of you! Together let us re-establish our mindset and let us not linger on the "I should have" thinking any longer but instead we'll confidently live on the "I WILL" perspective. From this day forward you will do better and you can do so much better because you're now stronger. Let's always stay optimistic and let's not resent ourselves because from them we now evolve into what we are today— the better version of ourselves.

Again this I plea, leave the past, and let the past worry for itself. 

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